Kameroo
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Wow--7 pages in 2 days.
I'm in the camp that doesn't share the cost of fuel unless it comes up (and it always seems to). Most of our "guest trips" are short hops with time on the hook. When they offer to pay, I let the guests know that we would have gone anyway and are glad to have them, end of story. If they push money into my hand at that point, I don't argue it, but that happens less than a tenth of the time.
In your situation, I think I would pull the guy aside and politely discuss it with him. You will either become better friends or find that he's not worth hanging with anyway.
I'm in the camp that doesn't share the cost of fuel unless it comes up (and it always seems to). Most of our "guest trips" are short hops with time on the hook. When they offer to pay, I let the guests know that we would have gone anyway and are glad to have them, end of story. If they push money into my hand at that point, I don't argue it, but that happens less than a tenth of the time.
In your situation, I think I would pull the guy aside and politely discuss it with him. You will either become better friends or find that he's not worth hanging with anyway.