Disrespectful dock mate.

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He's just lucky that wasn't my wife he'd be laying on the dock with afew teeth missing... :smt013. I wounld not leave her alone with this guy EVER again !!.
 
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Since we're on the same river, I want to know what marina Captain Joe's in so I can keep my wife far from there...
 
Dave S said:
I tend to be very simplistic when it comes to issues like this. Tell him your wife was offended by his remarks and not to make them again. Then ignore the guy from here on out. You don't need "friends" like him.

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Simple and effective. Good job Dave.
 
I would have my wife show off her goods... Then, maybe I would be lucky enough to get a glance at em! :)

Seriously, advice above is good, need to let him know that what he did is not appropriate and will not be tolerated!
 
i grant you its a strange request without alcohol or drugs. but it's not like he exposed himself or worse. if my wife told me that happened to her i'd want to know more about the guy - he might be just a ballsy good ol boy. i don't know how hot your girlfriend is or what she was wearing - all of these things are relevant. as for smacking him in the mouth based just on that comment, well i must live in a different universe.

is it possible for you to paste a couple of pics of her so we can understand a little better? oh, and of you too - it helps to really understand the dynamics. and if you have a picture of him that would be very helpful too. i have some mental images going here and i need to dispel them...
 
Only you and your wife know where the boundries are. I have friends that can say just about anything and not be offensive... and then there's others that comments like that would cross the line.
It's a double standard but not all friends are created equal!
I agree with Dave S. (and Pres) too. There's no point in making a federal case out of it but tell him he crossed the line and don't be as social.
 
Not enough evidence here for condemnation. What was she wearing? How long have you known each other? Has sexual innuendo been discussed before?

I dont know, this would totally depend on who the guy is and your relationship. Sexually speaking, there has been many a comment around our groups of friends about cleavage, but then again, we have been friends for quite a while, so its all in jest.

As well, this is done as a group...in group discussions/partying. The odd part to me out of all of it was that he did it on the sly...THAT to me is the sticky widget, and none of us would tolerate that.

People get too jealous of their spouses and the comments or looks of others. If youre that insecure that comments could bother you, some self reflection is in order as well. Not saying in this particular case, just in general. My wife is also someone not to f with. Although mostly quiet and somewhat shy, had that guy made the comment to her on the sly, she would have told him to go F off.
 
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I had pretty much the same thing happen to me this summer. A guy at the docks I have towed in more than once and watched his boat when he is away decided to make a move on my girlfriend. I was in FL for my sisters wedding, a nasty storm hit our lake and my girlfriend was checking on the boat. Was probably about 9:30pm, this guy had been drinking all day. Long story short he puts his hand high on her leg, and tells her he knows she wants’ him. She pulled away and said she had to go, he followed her to her car and started to try to back pedal.

The guy is beyond lucky I was a plane ride away. Many many evil thoughts came and went.

I decided next time I saw him I was going to call him out, and see how he handled it, and my response would be based from his reaction.

Took about three days before he showed up, but the day his truck pulled in the parking lot I hopped right up and made a dash for him. I started out pretty aggressive but he was apologetic and owned up for his mistake. He said he was drinking, said drinking was not an excuse but it would have never happened otherwise. I told him I didn’t care alcohol was involved, it crossed a very clear line. I said I appreciated he took ownership of his mistake, but anything more than just being civil at the docks is long gone.

I am not a typical tough guy, but I was in a mental state that would have allowed me to just let loose and worry about the consequences later. What kept that from happening was the fact he owned up, I was shocked that he didn’t try to blame it on her, or place more blame on the drinking.

No matter what you have to address it, if it slides past this guy will think it is ok to make more advances on your women. No reason to sink him to the bottom yet but let it be made clear that you’re a force he cannot contend with.
 
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A comment like that would only be acceptable from a very close friend. If you haven't known him for more than a few months, pump your tank right into his fresh water deck fill one night.
 
skibum said:
A comment like that would only be acceptable from a very close friend. If you haven't known him for more than a few months, pump your tank right into his fresh water deck fill one night.
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:thumbsup: Agree
 
I must be hanging out on the wrong docks. No one has asked to see my "man boobs":lol::lol::lol:
 
Long story short he puts his hand high on her leg, and tells her he knows she wants’ him. She pulled away and said she had to go, he followed her to her car .
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Thats how a RAPIST is born. :smt013 . :smt013 . :smt021
 
Here are my take a ways so far:
1) Man to man with Captain Joe
2) He needs to apologize.
3) Limit or eliminate dock-a-lizing with Captain sneaky ass Joe.
4) No ass kicking required (yet)
 
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I suggest all women just wear this shirt.
 

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billandamy said:
Not enough evidence here for condemnation. What was she wearing? How long have you known each other? Has sexual innuendo been discussed before?

I dont know, this would totally depend on who the guy is and your relationship. Sexually speaking, there has been many a comment around our groups of friends about cleavage, but then again, we have been friends for quite a while, so its all in jest.

As well, this is done as a group...in group discussions/partying. The odd part to me out of all of it was that he did it on the sly...THAT to me is the sticky widget, and none of us would tolerate that.

People get too jealous of their spouses and the comments or looks of others. If youre that insecure that comments could bother you, some self reflection is in order as well. Not saying in this particular case, just in general. My wife is also someone not to f with. Although mostly quiet and somewhat shy, had that guy made the comment to her on the sly, she would have told him to go F off.
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Obviously he doesn’t have that kind of relationship with his neighbor or he wouldn’t have posted this on a forum, unless she was wearing a shirt with ASK ME TO SHOW YOU MY T!TS then he should apologize.
 
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Jack F said:
Obviously he doesn’t have that kind of relationship with his neighbor or he wouldn’t have posted this on a forum, unless she was wearing a shirt with ASK ME TO SHOW YOU MY T!TS then he should apologize.
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True, but ya never know on a bulletin board what the whole story is until the whole story is told.
 
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