Should i or shouldn't I tell my boss that I've got a job interview?

Hey guys. Boy,, I can't believe the help I'm getting on this! I'm at work now, but this evening I'll let you all know how this situation came about, & why I feel it's time to go. There's a whole story behind this & I guess I thought it would be too much to post origianally. Believe me, I really hate thinking of having to start over somewhere else & DO NOT want to burn this bridge (I really don't want to cross it). But know this, I TRULY APPRECIATE EVERYONES RESPONSES & OPINIONS on this matter. It's nice to know where I can turn to get other peoples honest answers & opinions, whether it boat related or not!
 
I always think the truth (honesty) is the best route. That being said, if you are not asked why you need the time off, there's no conflict. If you do not have to go into detail and 'personal reasons' is acceptable, you still have not been dis-honest. If specifics are required, your integrity could be challanged. I think you already have in mind how it might play out, I can't recall a situation where being honest would have been the wrong decision. Good decisions are usually the harder ones to make. I suspect that you'll do fine whatever you decide. Keep us posted.
 
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I suggest you keep your personal information to yourself as it probably will come back to haunt you in the future.
 
What the HECK happened ??. Did you get the new job.!!. :huh:
 
I once told a boss that I was unhappy with my position, that I thought I could do more and be more productive. He handed me a bucket, a brush and a mop and led me to the bathroom. Told me to let him know when I was done with that one as there were 4 more that needed cleaning. I learned a lot from him. That was 25 years ago and we're still good friends.
 
Chriss hasn't posted since the 10th. Maybe his boss helped him out by making sure Chriss had all day everyday to pursue new employment.
 
Hey guys. Sorry I haven't posted lately, I've been laid up with back problems, barely able to walk, since the 9th. Haven't had back problems like this before & been off work because of it. I ended up getting some personal time off to do the interview & didn't tell the boss. I think it (the interview) went well. I'm trying not to get my hopes up but I really hope I get the job. Changing jobs & starting all over is a scary thing to think about doing these days (especially when the wife is back in college), but when it's time to go...it's time to go. I really appreciate all the good advice from everybody & it was all taken into consideration in helping making my decision.I won't know till next week if I got the job, but I'll post if I do. It's too hot for me to go boating today, 110 degree heat index, but HAPPY BOATING anyway!
 
Chris, Thanks for the update.
I hope you feel better soon & good luck at getting the NEW job. :smt038
 
I would not recommend telling your boss you are interviewing for another position.. He does not share with you corporate strategies or financial positions of the firm. Do take vacation time or time without pay for Monday's absence.. Upon an offer then tell your boss.... Business is business.....
 
As an employer I offer this advise, be as honest as possible with your boss and offer at least two weeks notice, three weeks notice if you are in an important or supervisory type position.

Why?

For the rest of your life, should you try to get a job anywhere, you want your ex-employeers to give you a favorable reference.
 
Turtlesboat said:
I once told a boss that I was unhappy with my position, that I thought I could do more and be more productive. He handed me a bucket, a brush and a mop and led me to the bathroom. Told me to let him know when I was done with that one as there were 4 more that needed cleaning. I learned a lot from him. That was 25 years ago and we're still good friends.
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I did the same thing the other day, got my 60 day notice in return.:smt021

Good luck Chris
 
Boatingfool said:
As an employer I offer this advise, be as honest as possible with your boss and offer at least two weeks notice, three weeks notice if you are in an important or supervisory type position.

Why?

For the rest of your life, should you try to get a job anywhere, you want your ex-employeers to give you a favorable reference.
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This is a path I have always tried to follow, not just for future references, but so I could look myself in the mirror every day...and sleep at night!
 
I had a job where I was handed the bucket (figuratively) as well.

Then, when I did well with that bathroom, I was given a second bathroom to do. Didn't take too long to figure out that all they wanted me to do was to clean up poop; and that if they gave me enough poop to clean up eventually I would become overwhelmed and "underperform".

The moral of the story is that it is OK to start at the bottom. . . as long as their actually is a path upwards. The hard part is figuring out if that path is actually there.
 
Didn't get it. To @#$%! pissed to add any more right now. I know, "be glad I've got a job"....whatever. :smt013
 
Sorry to hear that Chris. At least you didn't hurt the integrety of your current job. That's why you kept it quiet.

Hang in there something will come up. Any decision on selling the boat?
 
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