My Official Goodbye

NorCal Boater

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As I was posting something on this site this morning, I’ve come to the realization that my boating life is truly over. The boats have been gone for a year or so and this weekend I finally got rid of the last of the boat tools and parts stashed in the garage. I used to cruise this forum (the best boating forum there is) from time-to-time, unwilling to accept that my boating life is now gone. Age, failing health and physical inability have made it impossible for me to continue.

I acquired my first boat at age 15. An old wooden 13’ runabout with a Mercury outboard had been sitting for years in my neighbor’s backyard and he agreed to give it to me if I could get the engine running. I did, and that began my boat ownership. That was 57 years ago and since then I’ve owned 12 different boats from 10’ to 52’. I loved every one of them.

In the summer of 2007 my wife and I bought a 1989 340 Sundancer….our first “big boat”. I learned a lot with that boat in the 6 years we had her. Mostly we learned about the Marina lifestyle and our life became all about the Marina, yacht clubs, boating friends and just being on the boat. I discovered and joined this forum in January of 2008. I made many friends here and even had the opportunity to meet and hang with a few of you. I learned a lot from some of you, tolerated others and hopefully contributed my wisdom to those that needed it.

After the Sea Ray we purchased a 1984 52’ CPMY of Taiwanese construction that was to be our retirement home. Didn’t quite work out that way due to unforeseen life challenges. I wish I could say, “No Regrets” but I can’t….I have a lot of them. After we sold the 52 footer and relocated from California to the New Orleans area I tried boating with a 23’ cuddy cabin but got quickly bored with going up and down the River. I realized I’m a destination boater….I like to go places on my boat for weeks and days at a time and I just can’t anymore.

I used to always say, “there are people that own boats and there are Boaters”. I’m a boater and I always will be….with or without a boat. Most of you on this forum are also Boaters and it’s been a pleasure and an honor to share our passion with you all. I know I could hang around but it’s too painful for me. Thank you all and goodbye.
NorCal Boater
Shawn
 
NorCal, Your story could have been written about my life except for a few changes: I still have a 13' Boston Whaler that I'm cleaning up to sell; and I still have a lot of boating stuff in my garage that needs to go.

Like you, I got my first boat early, a 9' rowboat I got at age 5 to row around or cottage on Saginaw Bay and that started it off. I'm now 75 and have cancer that has affected my balance so any more boating is not gonna happen.

Last year we sold our 550 Sedan Bridge and that was the official end of my boating career.

So, like you, I'm on to other ventures. We like to travel and will be doing a lot of that over the next few years.

So take care, enjoy your life as best you can and be sure to share your life stories with your kids and grandkids.
 
I am also a "Boater", your presence will be missed. The day that has come for you, I am still running from kicking and screaming. And refuse at this point not acknowledge is closer in my future then I want to admit. All the best to you and your family. Just remember that no one needs to ever leave the forums. Visit from time to time and stay well!
 
Nice post NorCal, thanks. I concur with other posters, and will add a couple thoughts. First, I am a bit older than you, so have been envisioning that moment in my boating career. In anticipation, I have noticed a boating club membership that might be a worthy alternative for you, with locations nationwide, perhaps worldwide.
Tight lines,
bw
 
Shawn,

God bless and you will be missed. I am in Now Orleans monthly and if you ever would like to "have a beer" and talk boating I am always looking for a "friend at the bar" that shares the same destination boating passions.
 
Don’t be this guy :D:)…. And don’t be a stranger… say hello once in a while

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NorCal,
It’s better to look back at fond memories than to have none,
You will be missed here ,check in from time to time.
Enjoy whatever life brings your way.
 
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I tried boating with a 23’ cuddy cabin but got quickly bored with going up and down the River.

Your problem isn’t the boat, you turned left when you should have turned right. Move to the Chesapeake and you would have dozens of locations to travel to on a 23 cuddy. It’s not to late to move.
 
Thanks for your time and knowledge sharing here over the years. The thought has crossed my mind a few times about selling ours and moving on to another hobby but we were lucky to find such a good boat and just getting it to where we want it. Maybe once spring comes we will get the fever again but had considered buying another car and getting back into drag racing and since that is usually on Sundays it would interfere with boating so it would likely be a case of one or the other
 
I got a tear in my eye as I read the original post. It really hit home.

My earliest recollection in life was at 4 years old, sitting next to grandpa at the helm, with my hand on the tiller and his hand on mine. That confirmed the rest of my life.

This past year we had the trifecta of diagnoses occur. Three cancers. Not only the wife and I, but my lifelong best fishing / camping / hunting buddy as well.

It couldn't have happened at a worse time. Still fairly healthy enough to ride our 60 MPH jetski, and we finally upgraded to the fishing and family boats of our dreams.

I resolved years ago that when I bought my first brand spanking new car, I would never drive her in the snow and they would eventually bury me in it. Then, later when we got our first 'ski, when I die I wanted them to strap me to it at full throttle and point me to Niagara Falls. As the years go by, my opinions have moderated, but I'm still a die hard SOB......LOL.

When Grandma & Grandpa went into the nursing home, Dad made me promise him I'd shoot him with his favorite S&W before I ever put him in there. I agreed, but only TIC.

If I only get to sit on my 'ski in the garage, or only get to put the boat(s) in the water once a year, they will still be registered and insured until my kids take over the estate.

I'm not a boater...I'm a boatman and that's my story and I'm sticking to it.
 
NorCal, I’ve enjoyed your posts over the years. I too am a destination boater and prefer destinations I’ve never been before, as I’m sure you are and do too. Always like reading and hearing about others cruising adventures. I was super excited for you when you bought the Kha Shing, but we all know, some perhaps too well, that fate deals the cards and we just make the best of what we get. As others have said, I hope that boating may be in your future if you choose, but either way, don’t be a stranger here, and if your thoughts of trying the RV path come about, keep the screen name on the rv forums, I’ll keep an eye out for you.
 
Well written. We are destination boaters too even if some weekends the destination is staying in our marina slip. Chesapeake is great. For many years during my mispent youth and first marrige I got a lot of pleasure by being an archair sailer. Expect the time may come when I open those books again.
Enjoy every day as a gift!
 
Shawn, Thank you so much for sharing your knowledge with all of us through the years. I hope that if you do sign off here that there are other interests that can replace the smile and excitement that boating has brought you all this time. Take Care
 

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