My boating friend Joe.

hack4alivin

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I have always wanted to own a boat, but it was not until five years ago that this dream became a reality for me. The funny think is I did not release then just how much owning a boat would change my life. The camaraderie we have found with boat owners and especially all the new very close friends I now have all came from boating. Lifelong friendships have been forged and I am so lucky and privileged for that.

That is where my friend Joe comes in. I met Joe down here at our marina several years ago and found him to be the kind of person I could call a friend. Someone that was not self centered, someone that cared about others, and someone that would lend a friend a hand at a moments notice. Just around this time last year I heard my friend Joe was diagnosed with cancer. I did not want to believe someone so young could be struck down like this. At the very beginning of the season we was able to put together a small crew of very generous people to wax Joe’s boat and get it ready for the spring splash. Even our local MarineMax pitched in to bottom paint the boat for him. Well we did get it ready and Joe was able to get out on her several times, all along never letting anyone on as to just how serious his condition was. Well yesterday, Saturday January 29th at 8:06am Joe lost his battle with cancer and passed away, he was 40 years old. He put up a courageous battle against a condition where there was no winning, and the entire time his spirits were always up and he never let on to others he was in this battle. He did not want any pity. We will miss him.
 
I'm sorry for the loss of your friend.
 
Sorry about everyones loss Bill. You were fortunate to have a "Joe" in your life, they are few and far between. We too have forged our "best" friendships through boating and have felt the "change" in our lives for it.
 
Bill,

Sorry to hear you lost a good friend!
 
Sorry for your loss Bill.
 
Bill, I'm sorry for your loss, and for those who knew Joe and also will miss him.

We should all be lucky enough to have a Joe in our lives.
 
Life is so short. Sorry to hear about your friend.
 
Bill. I'm very sorry to hear that. Cancer f*cking sucks. It takes way too much from us. Now you know why I'm so hell bent on raising $$ to fight this God Damn thing. It simply steals great people from all of us.

Here's to Joe. Sail on brother, sail on...
 
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Joe, sounds like ever person should have known. Sorry for your loss.
 
I lost my sister 8 years ago, the void never goes away but time softens the heart. I often think of her enjoying my boat, but I got into boating as a result of her passing. I thought why am I waiting to buy a boat, and then just did, not concerned as much by being able to afford it. Life is short, and you never know when it's your time! Sorry for your loss, but he will now be boating with you every time you leave the dock, I know my sister is!
 
It is the realization that our time here is so short and time with good friends and family is too, drives us to enjoy boating and the boating family even more.

Deepest condolences to his family and to yours in this time of loss. Thank you for sharing this will all of us.
 
Sad story. Too often we forget how lucky we are every day just for being alive!
 
Bill,
Sorry to hear about your loss. Life is too short.

Paul
 
Bill, I pray for the family, am happy you had such a great friendship, and am thankful for the friends I have made here.

Mike
 
Bill sorry for your loss,deepest reguards ,be like the ones we love and we all will be better for it.A friend our company sublets glass work to had a sore throat two weeks ago,the tumor in his throat was the first thing they found ,it is in his liver now also ,he is given 6 months to live and is already undergoing the first of a lot of chemotherapy.He Is in good spirits and i hope he stays that way.
 

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