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Is tipping just getting out of hand

4.2K views 35 replies 25 participants last post by  BillK2632  
#1 ·
So before I start this one let me say I feel I am a pretty generous tipper. Always tip well in restaurants and even the takeout meals - we tend to frequent the same places, know the wait staff, so we tip them well. When it comes to the marina, I take care of the dock hands, fuel, pumpout and the lift operators. Wife thinks I give more than I should, but they work hard, take care of me and my boat and I appreciate it. But now it seems everywhere you go, when it comes time to pay, they hand over the credit card machine and it is always asking for a tip -- and usually the smallest amount now is 18%. But this one took the cake - in NC you have to have an emission inspection in order to register your car each year -- guess what, the state bones me for $30 on a stupid emission inspection and then asks for a tip! I have also seen the tip screen show up on some websites for an online order that. WTH!
 
#2 ·
Yes.
Club is now adding 20% to checks automatically and there is an 'Additional Gratuity' line should you care to...
Thursday nights after golf league, I always call the Admiral and we get something from Dairy Queen.
Last night there was a tip jar in the drive through window.

I consider my self a pretty good tipper as well but this is getting out hand.
 
#9 ·
How much of these “tips” even end up in the employees hands? This is just an end around to help business owners pay lower wages while still raising prices. Depending on the location or type of business there is absolutely No service involved yet they ask for a tip? Pick up carry out and they ask for a tip. Go to the vet and they ask for a tip. I’m surprised they have not set up a tip prompt in the self check out line at the grocery store!
 
#19 ·
As someone who depended on tips in college to pay the bills, I was a waiter at a restaurant, yes it's gotten out of hand. In my opinion all of these point of sale service credit card systems have made it easier. I'm waiting to see this at 7-Eleven now, the tip screen. You see them everywhere you go now, and the cashier is staring at you, there's that awkward silence when the tip screen pops up.

By the way I worked at at marina in high school, $2.50 an hour, pumped gas and such, and never got a tip.
 
#21 ·
Much of this is driven by the credit card processing companies looking for additional revenue. The more you charge the more they make since they work on a percentage discount. Move people from 15 to 20 or more percent tips on top of tax and they make more on each sale.

Same with the credit card convenience fee that has popped up all over. These companies convince merchants its better to push the fee onto the consumer so that they can keep all of the money from the sale. Problem is merchants could pay 2.6% and they push a 4% fee many times to the consumer. Guess who profits on the extra 1.4% on gross bill.

-Kevin
 
#25 ·
Same with the credit card convenience fee that has popped up all over. These companies convince merchants its better to push the fee onto the consumer so that they can keep all of the money from the sale. Problem is merchants could pay 2.6% and they push a 4% fee many times to the consumer. Guess who profits on the extra 1.4% on gross bill.

-Kevin
I think passing the credit card convenience fee is rip off. I would think that since most people use a card to pay with, the merchant would have that cost added into the price of the item they are selling. I understand where you get a discount for paying with cash. There is a difference when it is added and when it is a discount.
 
#26 ·
I said it when the pandemic started and all the companies etc. were waiving fees, cutting this and that trying to "help". I told my wife then than everyone - including the government would be looking to recover all that lost revenue -- and now the tipping thing is just part of the recovery. No one ever waives fees or costs, they defer them.
 
#27 ·
I tip 25%-30% at my local diner and at least 20% at restaurants. These employer companies are passing labor costs to their patrons and pay very little per hour wages.

My question is the forklift driver at the marina. What or do you tip him every time? How much? When? When he puts you in or takes you out?

Im about to move to rack-n-stack and to hell with crowded boat ramps w no trailer parking.
 
#28 ·
I tip 25%-30% at my local diner and at least 20% at restaurants. These employer companies are passing labor costs to their patrons and pay very little per hour wages.

My question is the forklift driver at the marina. What or do you tip him every time? How much? When? When he puts you in or takes you out?

Im about to move to rack-n-stack and to hell with crowded boat ramps w no trailer parking.
Regarding the marina -- I am also in a dry stack. I tip the dock hands usually$5 depending on what I have in my pocket, they help me tie up and get the boat moved over to the lift - these are high school / college kids. The forklift drivers are older fella's, full time and they get paid pretty well. It's a bit inconvenient to hand them $$ when they are trying to run the lift. I leave them an envelope with cash once a month - anywhere from $30 - $50 depending on how much I have been there and how often I ask them to move my boat around to wash racks etc.
 
#32 ·
I had a similar surprise when I got hit with a tipping prompt at an unexpected place recently. I was getting my car inspected for emissions in NC, and after shelling out $30 for the inspection, they asked for a tip! It caught me off guard for sure. It seems like those tipping screens are popping up everywhere now—even on online orders, which is kind of surprising.