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I need some positive vibs!

2.2K views 38 replies 25 participants last post by  KnoxWill  
#1 ·
Reaching out the members to send some prayers and positive vibes my way. Not only did I have to put the boat up for the season today, but I am off to Johns Hopkins Hospital for surgery Friday to remove a tumor in my pancreas. They caught it early so hoping for a full recovery and be ready for next season. Thanks for your time to respond.
 
#6 · (Edited)
been there, February, 2020, cancer surgery, had tounge cut out, made me a new one from wrist muscle, replaced that muscle from my leg. Never mind me, I good, DONT SMOKE!!!
you will be in there at least a week. Every morning at 6am, some nurse will come in, turn on all the lights, blast wake you up with incredible bright lights. Take your BP and temp. Shortly after your doctor will come in with a passel of interns to ask you how you feel. they will poke and prod you.
Tell them fine, dont bitch. they just doing their job trying to fix you up. BE NICE. By 8am it will be over and you can go back to sleep for a while. A while being maybe half hour when the orderly comes in to give you a flavorless no-taste no salt, no sugar, bland breakfast. BE NICE. they just doing their job. GOOD LUCK.. DONT complain. I was really nice, but I heard a lot of patients in rooms down the hall bitching and screaming, just miserable people. DONT be them.
I see my surgeon every 3 months now (come Feb if all tests good they will declare me cancer free, takes 2 years) and he laughs and hugs me every time i see him, says i had the most positive outlook of any patient he ever had. Do it, you'll be fine.
 
#8 ·
You'll get through, very similar to PLs experience for me, 2016. Doing fine now, have bought two more boats since then. 'Cause I can, and intend to enjoy my remaining time.

You will find that most likely your perspective on life will (or is now) changing. It will focus you on what's really important in life, at least for me it did. I hate it that it took that, but I'm actually happier now. I don't sweat the "small shit" any more. And family is #1.
 
#13 ·
When I was going through chemo for metastatic prostate cancer a friend gave me this poem. It's now my motto. Feel free to adopt it as your own....

The Devil whispered in my ear
"You are not strong enough to withstand this storm."

Today I whispered in the Devil's ear
"I AM the storm."
 
#14 ·
Went to Johns Hopkins myself for cancer surgery. First class care. I completely understand why people go there. Nothing close in my home town. The evening before surgery we went to Capital Grille for dinner. Porcini rubbed rib eye, mashed potatoes and asparagus. I kidded my wife it was like my last supper. You picked a great place for your surgery! They are the best. Prayers and best wishes!!
 
#19 ·
We all know that tomorrow is not promised so we live today to its fullest. God Speed @KnoxWill, next season will be here before you know it and if there is indeed power in prayer, we will hear that you are having a great 2022 boating season! Chin Up and carry on.
Carpe Diem
 
#20 ·
You could be in better hands a surgeon there removed my prostate July 2nd 2020 got almost all the cancer. My latest PSA still .008.

All the best and a speedy recover do exactly what the surgeon tells you.
 
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