The Admiral thinks she's fat...

I disagree
She is not a teeny size 0 but not fat at all
I love her very much and wonder how to handle this
please answer the poll....no guarantees I will use the method you vote for though.

No win situation!!


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I have the same issue with mine (GF not wife). I just tell her " I am the one that you need to make yourself atractive for and I love you just the way you are." It may take a few hundred times but it has worked for me.

I would just ignore her. I've been there before and there is no right answer. They start with that crap for reassurance when they are dealing with some sort of insecurity issue. if you tell them they are not you get "You're just saying that!". If you agree they stare at you incredulouslyand say " I can't believe you just said that!". Either way it leads into a big adversarial conversation that you can't win. All of this because they are feeling insecure!!

You can try the old "You are perfect just the way you are" BS line but, that will still lead down the "No I'm not", "Yes you are" etc, etc, blah blah blah!!!!!!

Good luck buddy!! Trust me, ignore the comment and bury yourself in a book, the paper, CSR, TV anything!! Just avoid eye contact at all costs!!!

Post a picture and we can advise?

HUMPH said:

Post a picture and we can advise?

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Ok, that was funny...

.. As long as its not a pic of the four sun's ladies.

RUN Forrest RUN !!! Its a no win argument no matter what you say. :smt021

Dude, if you have to ask how to answer that question, I fully expect that natural selection will take care of you........

How much does she weigh?

Well... creating a poll on a public forum is probably not the most ideal way to win her over :lol:

Tell her you are attracted to her.

From a medal standpoint medical evidence suggests that all body weights within a body mass index of 19 to 25 are reasonably equally healthy. Give her a link to a BMI calculator website or install bump on both of your smart phones then bump her a BMI calculator app.

She isn't fat...about 5'9" and 150ish
I am 6'6" and 220
And I eat constantly but don't gain any

I hate my phone

moparlvr4406 said:

She isn't fat...about 5'9" and 150ish
I am 6'6" and 220
And I eat constantly but don't gain any

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I guess I'll be nicer to you since you are a bit bigger than me and I'm sure younger based on the original question... BTW, I agree, 5' 9" and 150 is just fine, especially...........you fill in the blanks.

If your wife ever indicates that perhaps she has gained weight, or that maybe she’s looking “frumpy” or if God forbid she should ask you whether or not she looks heavier than normal…your answer must always be, “You’re smokin hot and I love you.”
Don’t let her trick you. She will think of new ways to get the truth out of you. Rather than coming right out with “Am I fat?”, she will ask you if she looks similar in shape to the woman walking past you. She will ask you if her jeans make her look fat. She will show you a picture of herself and ask you if it’s a true depiction of what she looks like. She will promise you she simply wants the truth so that she can better understand what it is she’s working with and she will coax you into the red zone.
Let me tell you what could happen should you enter the red zone by providing any answer other than, “you’re smokin hot and I love you”. Let’s pretend you actually answer one of your wife’s tricky questions with a thoughtful response like, “Oh come on honey, you’re only slightly bigger than the woman we just passed” or “what’s the big deal? I like a little meat on your bones” or something along those lines…
Your wife will gasp and say something like, “You think I’m Fat!?!”
You will scramble, “NO! NO THAT’S NOT WHAT I SAID”
Your wife will ask you to elaborate, “Please clarify then because I just heard you call me fat.”
When your wife asks you to “elaborate”…you need to run. You need to buy her flowers…you need to cough up a lung…you need to do something…ANYTHING…but whatever you do, you must never. ever. “elaborate”.
Should you choose the path of “clarification” this is what will come next:
You will stutter, “That’s not what I mean…I just meant you’re larger right now then you were last year at this time, but I like it…I think large is pretty…you were too skinny back then…”
You will continue digging and digging and digging.
And your wife will start crying.
She didn’t even THINK she was larger this year, but now her own husband has turned against her and solidified her deepest fears. She is gigantic! And now she’s gigantic and pissed…because YOU…her husband, should be building her up at all costs and never ever be breaking her down.
Suddenly you are in trouble for simply doing what you were asked to do which was a.) to give her an honest opinion and b.) elaborate. I know it doesn’t seem fair. Don’t hate the player, hate the game.
Your wife will sink into a self pitying depression and will refuse to cook.

When you ask what’s for dinner she will snap wildly, “I DON’T KNOW I’M NOT EATING ANYMORE…I’m too busy trying to get AS SKINNY AS I WAS LAST YEAR.”
You will quietly creep backwards out of the kitchen and you will eat cereal every night for a week before she’s ready to consider speaking to you again.
And Man?
You listen to me when I tell you this…the first words out of your mouth sure as hell better be, “you’re smokin hot and I love you.”

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Glad I ain't the only double poster. Lol

When she asks you ask her, compared to what? (Then the fight was on).:lol::lol:

The only line you need to remember is; "Your a$$ looks good in that."